Watch Your Attitude

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Attitude is everything, if you have a crappy attitude you:

• Age quicker
• Suffer from stress internally and externally
• Attract disaster upon disaster
• Have failed relationships because you are so crappy no one will tolerate you
• Pay double for things because people don’t offer any discounts (most likely they increase their prices!)
• You are always running late because you are busy complaining about the bad service
• You rarely go out and thus have very few friends
• You hate Christmas and your birthday because people who are supposed to love you forget
• Life is SO HARD
• Other people are luckier than you
• You have had a tough life and you see no way out

Just imagine living like this? Today I met someone with these characteristics he was our bus driver on the way home. We were in the city and it was a busy bus route to jump on especially if you have a pram, the driver was angry and bitter, a crappy attitude alright. And he worked with people, displaying a ‘life is too hard’ attitude and just get out of my way type of behaving. Lucky I was too preoccupied with my little one to let it occupy me too much. I recognized that he was not happy, and wanted the world to know.

In contrast, two days ago I got the best news from a close friend and past client. She had been working so hard towards her goal, she wanted to move from the UK to Canada and migrate, it was a huge goal for her and she got the green light whilst having her interview at the Canadian office in Paris. She impressed the socks of them with her personality and can do attitude, she was on fire! No one can say no to her, she has it sorted and smiles and is so eager to do the right thing by everybody. Her attitude is amazing and all I can say is that Canada is lucky to have her, what an asset she is!

So take your pick which attitude would you prefer? It is that simple. You choose your emotional state, so think about, I personally like doors to open for me.