Never Again

Photo by Krieger Conradt

Whilst at the grocery checkout I overheard a lady saying on the mobile “why do I keep doing this? And ‘never again will I act this way with men?” I empathized with her as a few years ago I was that woman (well perhaps not on the mobile spilling out my private life!) . I too had created patterns around my ‘future partners’ and kept repeating those patterns until I sorted out my own needs. Then I finally broke my non-serving ways.

We all have patterns of behaviors and some are conscious and some are not, we just do and often we are driven emotionally to do something without really realizing the consequences or impact on our future decisions. Like taking a main highway we have this road all mapped out in our minds and body so it just happens.. Until we say ‘never again’.

Once we recognize this we are on the road to awareness and change and like any habit, we need to replace it with something else, more productive and constructive. That is the key, if you change this habit and this too does not serve you, then you just changed one bad habit for another and where does this leave you?

So be honest with yourself and see the truth, ask one or two very close friends what they REALLY think and take on board their opinions, you asked for honesty so commit to changing something. If you need extra accountability then that is what a Life Coach is for, we have no hidden agenda, just want you to get your learnings and become the person you really want to be authentically.

We only have a few weeks left of this year, and if you are still hanging on to patterns that are really not in alignment with you, don’t you think it is time to let go and move on?

So help is not far away and you can make your Never Again come true.